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Judson Carroll's avatar

I have never married because I haven't met the right lady - I still hope to! Most of the women around here, who are within even 20 years of my age, have been married and divorced at least once. It usually does come down to this issue. They balk at the idea of having their prior marriage/s annulled by the Church and the teaching of marriage for life to one person. It doesn't bother me if a woman has lived with a boyfriend before, so long as her attitudes and beliefs have matured beyond that point. But, I believe in marriage as a sacrament.... and that seems to be extremely off-putting to most women these days.

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Kathleen's avatar

I thank you for the last paragraph. However, I do think the Church do a much better job of siding with victims of abuse and protecting them. Women in particular, although it can be true men, are usually still told by priests and other church counselors to basically put up and shut up. Pray for your abuser and continue to live with Folks don't realize that an abuser is a killer. Not so much a killer of the body although that does happen. They are killers of a person's very being, of one's soul and spirit, of one's idenity! Many think I am laying it on too thick, but I am not! No one should be told to remain with an abuser! It is a death sentence!

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