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Dave DuBay's avatar

I wonder what the ladies have to say about this. Were St Thomas around today, perhaps he’d say “boyish” rather than “effeminate.” That said, society provides protection to children and to women (though less so), which is unavailable men. Women must sacrifice for children, but men must sacrifice for children and for women. If a man can’t protect himself, then he’s of no use to anyone and doesn’t deserve protection, in this view. Comforts thus pose a greater risk to a man’s responsibilities. Comforts being available to women, but not to men, however, isn’t a criticism of women because the context of being a woman is different. Still, Thomas’s word choice is bound to be misinterpreted today.

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Apr 4Edited

“The only man you should try to emulate, imitate, and worship, is Jesus Christ.”

I understand your point but imitation and emulation are very different from worship.

I believe there are many saints and likely men we may know of or know personally, who act more virtuously than we know ourselves to be, are least in certain areas/aspects of life. I see no problem in acknowledging and aspiring to any true virtue exemplified by another man.

To worship or to idolize others is much different than recognizing and striving to emulate a virtue or talent that we recognize as good and praiseworthy in someone else.

Christ is the perfect man. As He is also The Divine Second Person of The One Triune God, He is worthy of Worship, which is to be granted to no other but God.

Again, I understand and agree with what you say in regard to not being swayed by today’s worldly standards or striving for temporal accolades.

But The Church canonizes saints not only so that we can ask their intercession, but also so we can be confident that even though others have lived in many different ways, they ultimately came by God’s Grace to live (or die) in a manner we can look up to and strive to emulate.

Saint Paul knew he could do no good but through God’s Grace; yet could also say:

“Be ye followers of me, as I also am of Christ [1 Corinthians 11:1]

Also translated:

“Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ.”

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