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Christina M. Sorrentino's avatar

Excellent article, thank you for writing on such an important topic and reinforcing what we believe as Catholics.

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Fr. Scott Bailey, C.Ss.R.'s avatar

Well said, Dave.

You wrote: “As Catholics, we must avoid contemptuous rhetoric, despite activists being unlikely to reciprocate.”

That we very often use contemptuous rhetoric and give in to “righteous indignation” and outrage does great damage and only serves to fan the flames. It’s sinful. It convinces no one. It’s so damaging that even clergy and religious have jumped on bandwagons and defended ideologies because of it. This applies not only to transgenderism but to all current cultural and social issues e.g. abortion and euthanasia, ssa, and others.

In our self-righteousness we claim to “love the sinner but hate the sin” just as Jesus did. In reality that’s an excuse for most of us. It’s a form of justifying our sins of hatred. It’s a lie we tell ourselves because we know Jesus never acted as we do.

My grandmother used to say the truism, “you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar.” It’s a lesson we all need to learn and be constantly reminded of. Our “vinegar” will only push people away, deafen them to the truth, and harden them in their error. History bears this out time and again.

Accept the sin? Never! But be overly gentle and loving. Embrace the sinner? Always! But never with judgement and condemnation, for to judge and condemn puts us on a par with the only One who is to judge people, and that is the temptation that led to our downfall in Eden.

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